Ask Mike: What is a towhead?

Hey Guys,

My friend’s son Zach was as bald as a cue ball for the first year of his life. Now the little maniac’s hair is coming in thick and blond. I guess that means he’s a towhead, but that raises the question: How exactly did that phrase get started? How did blond kids get that nickname?

An excellent article from the good people at Random House lays out the basics. The word “tow” in this case “is from a Germanic word meaning ‘to drag’; it’s related to tug.” Put another way, it means ‘the fiber of flax, hemp, or jute, prepared for spinning’. Those fibers, which are used to make clothes, are often “both light-colored and messy.” Hence, little kids with light-colored (and messed-up) hair are called tow-heads.

A 2003 column from Ask Yahoo! goes into a bit more detail. In colonial times, families harvested flax to make their own clothes. Once it was harvested, it went through a process “to separate the long, thin fibers from the shorter, coarser ones.” To do this, “the flax was pulled through a bed of nails or combed in a process called ‘towing.’”

The shorter fibers were called “tow.” This, in turn, “led to the term “towheads” to describe people, particularly children, whose hair resembled these strands.”

So, that’s the story of towheads. But now I have another question. Redheads can be both male and female, same as blonds. But what about folks with dark hair? Dark-haired women are called brunettes, but does that apply to men too? Or are they just “dark-haired”? Any theories? I’m all ears.

Thanks for reading,

Mike

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  1. The kid sounds like an idiot if you ask me.

    Comment posted on May 18th, 2011 at 1:33 pm by Cletus
  2. I think…technically a male w/ dark hair could be called a brunette, but it just sounds more masculine to say he is dark haired. IMO

    Comment posted on May 18th, 2011 at 3:01 pm by Jo Ann Fischer
  3. I thought everyone was saying the wrong slur, thanks did not know that a tow head was.

    Comment posted on May 18th, 2011 at 3:56 pm by Bobskeyboardz
  4. WTF Cletus? And I was always under the impression that a tow head is a kid who was born with blonde hair that turned brown as they got older.

    Comment posted on May 18th, 2011 at 5:13 pm by MD
  5. Male brunettes are ‘tall, dark, and handsome’ [ or in my husbands case; 'short, dark and handsome'! ]

    Comment posted on May 18th, 2011 at 5:38 pm by susan
  6. I think the “ette” part of brunette makes the word sound “girly” (like a Rockette) so people just don’t use it for guys. I would generally just say “he has dark brown hair”.

    Comment posted on May 18th, 2011 at 5:57 pm by Kathryn
  7. I’ve heard plenty of people call dark-haired men brunette. Where in the world do you guys get your information???

    Comment posted on May 18th, 2011 at 6:03 pm by Audrey
  8. It’s a toe-head. It’s when a child is blindingly blonde for a while, then becomes brown hair later in life.

    Comment posted on May 18th, 2011 at 6:38 pm by Sydney
  9. Re: Tow head – Apparently Mike has not seen tow (from flax) in person or in a photo. I have seen it and handled it. The color of tow is a very light ash blond to a platinum blond color. Children with hair the color in those ranges are the true tow heads. After it is spun and prepared for weaving, it is twisted into a skein until it is used to thread the loom for the warp for weaving into linen fabric.

    As for a man with dark hair, he could be called be a brunet (pronounced in English just like “brunette.”) The spelling brunette is the feminine form of the word, from the original French word for brown, “brun.”
    Source: TheFreeDictionary.com

    Comment posted on May 18th, 2011 at 7:00 pm by Juanaquena
  10. Using “Towhead” or “Toehead” to describe someone means that they have ridiculously blonde hair.
    Whenever I hear it being used it’s usually towards girls (or sometimes boys) who bleach their hair till it’s PLATINUM blonde and nearly white.

    Comment posted on May 18th, 2011 at 7:11 pm by Aimee
  11. That’s awesome.

    Comment posted on May 18th, 2011 at 7:17 pm by Kelly
  12. I always thought it was ‘toe-head’ like lighter colored like a toenail. ew.
    I’ve always referred to dark-haired men as brunettes.

    Comment posted on May 18th, 2011 at 11:34 pm by Danielle S
  13. Comment posted on May 18th, 2011 at 11:41 pm by funky
  14. Lol, brunette is the feminine of bruno which is old german for brown, so guys with brown hair are brunos.

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 12:29 am by Crystal
  15. This is the first time for me to hear of towhead

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 12:31 am by Progetto Hogan Donna
  16. I have no idea now

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 12:33 am by scarpe Hogan
  17. Tow hair is literally “flaxen haired” .this meaning of tow comes from middle low German touw (which means, “flax hemp fibre”).this probably went back to the prehistoric Gerrmanic base tow,taw,make,prepare also English”tool”make yarn from wool,spin

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 12:40 am by wally mcdonald
  18. Actually, etymologically speaking, brunette is only for a female. It has recently been used to refer to a man with dark hair but the appropriate word would actually be brun.

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 12:58 am by xrys
  19. do you mean towell head or towhead.. i think towell heads i think camel jockeys…i dont know what a tow head is

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 4:51 am by Alex
  20. A good blog ,that after some research , proves that my son , as well as Zach are in fact “Tow heads”. Not “idiots ” as your previous unlearned commenter stated. Hair colour is not gender orientated I believe. As such a brunette is a brown haired person male or female. Black haired people are left out as far as I can see…. would like to hear otherwise.

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 5:37 am by Gavin Mulcahy
  21. Mike, you have too much time on your hands. That’s a GOOD thing! :)

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 5:46 am by Josh
  22. And here is another question. Why does the towheaded kid turn into a dark haired kid later?

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 7:49 am by Hawkeye
  23. Brunette is the feminine of Bruno which is old german for brown. Dark hair males are Brunos, just nobody has used that term since the 60′s.

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 9:18 am by Crystal
  24. I was married to a ‘toe-head’. It means having rediculously blonde hair (naturally), so blonde that it looks white. Almost albino like, without the pink eyes.

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 10:12 am by fyre13
  25. I have naturally blonde hair, and as a kid I was called a “Towhead” more than once,… but I always thought it was “Toe-Head”.
    Well, this makes me feel better to know that my head is not shaped like a toe!

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 10:21 am by Eva
  26. Nice point of view, but try to consider the amount of effort put into his lifestyle and future.

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 10:37 am by Billy B.
  27. nice

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 1:34 pm by Manu
  28. im a towhead! its a really light blonde!

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 5:35 pm by toru!
  29. my hair is natural tho! i is towhead! light blond!

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 5:36 pm by toru!
  30. I always wondered what towhead meant, my sister and I was called that alot when we were kids.
    Thanks Mike!

    Comment posted on May 19th, 2011 at 6:42 pm by Leda
  31. A person with very light (almost white) blond hair, “tow” being flax or hemp fibers. Tow-headed, along with fair(-haired) and flaxen-haired, is a tradional way in the English language to refer to blond hair or lightly-colored hair, having come from its old Germanic roots (which are quite rare).
    “The tow head is an illusive creature, a minority.”

    Comment posted on May 20th, 2011 at 2:25 am by captian serenity
  32. Dark hair is NOT a brunette, that is BROWN hair. Dark hair would be Brown or Black. Guys usually just have Dark Hair. As to towhead that is one of the DUMBEST terms I have heard of and this is the first time I have heard of it thankfully.

    Comment posted on May 20th, 2011 at 8:40 am by S
  33. Towheads are usually referred to people with blonde hair.

    Comment posted on May 20th, 2011 at 8:47 am by Brandon
  34. I’m a towhead. It is an uncommon term. Actually, the only reason I’ve heard of it is because I’ve been called it several times before.

    And just for the record, it is possible to have natural platinum blonde hair. I happen to have it. But, most people do dye it that color. In fact, it’s kinda upsetting, because in order for my hair to look like this, I’m have to be super ultra pale. I’ve even gotten asked if I was an albino once. (The answer to that would be NO!)

    Comment posted on May 20th, 2011 at 4:27 pm by Stormy
  35. you… *shrugs*

    Comment posted on May 20th, 2011 at 7:04 pm by livewire9
  36. i think it came to be because they would tow people around town by their hair

    Comment posted on May 20th, 2011 at 10:03 pm by phil
  37. Ette is French. Its a suffix. Ette implies feminine, always.

    Comment posted on May 21st, 2011 at 4:02 am by Joel
  38. here is my description; back in the cowboy days, before the Frenchies came over to this country, there was not the word blond in this country. Blond is a Frenchy word and they brought it over here when they came here. but before they got here the only description for kids with light hair was tow. this is a color. it is the color of the cowboys hemp rope. it is a color we do not use anymore but back in the days of the cowboys it was the only way to describe the color of the kids hair. Also being a Frenchy word as with latin type language there are masculine and feminine spellings for some words. Blond is for boys and blonde is for girls…

    Comment posted on May 21st, 2011 at 7:58 pm by Ron Bjorklund
  39. Towhead is the traditional English word. “Blonde” became popular adult females in the 1920s, especially with the movie bleached blondes. Originally an adjective. “Blond” is correct for male hair, or males.
    Rowena is described as ‘flaxen-haired’ by Sir Walter Scott in Ivanhoe.
    Towhead is particularly used to describe small children, as the color darkens when they grow up. Both my children had white-gold hair when they were little, as did I.

    Comment posted on May 22nd, 2011 at 7:03 am by Barbara
  40. I think it is when some child is born with really light hair and then it grows darker as they get older

    Comment posted on May 22nd, 2011 at 7:11 am by Erin
  41. That was uncalled for Cletus!!! You need to crawl back under your rock! To me it was white blonde. My grandfather had hair like that till his death at 79yrs, my sister till her teens, a 40 yr old nephew . And dark brown or brunette no different, so many natural shades!

    Comment posted on May 22nd, 2011 at 11:24 am by Rhonda Powers
  42. I’m amazed at the number of people here who have not heard the term “tow headed” as I’ve seen it in reading books in reference to blond characters and figured what it meant as a child, although I am African American. I’ve always referred to and been understood when referring dark-haired persons, male or female as brunette–understanding that the root word means brown although the hair can be medium brown to black.

    Comment posted on May 22nd, 2011 at 1:36 pm by Kathy Michael
  43. Upon first glance at the title, I thought he was asking, “What is a towelhead?”

    Comment posted on May 22nd, 2011 at 3:15 pm by Lonny
  44. towhead is kind of religion , that beleivin in only one god with no son no wife, only god ( allah) , and this basic believe in islam

    Comment posted on May 22nd, 2011 at 3:31 pm by foolen
  45. Fact: a towhead is one with whiteish blond hair,
    as one, I know this.

    welcome <3

    Comment posted on May 22nd, 2011 at 6:03 pm by Brooke.
  46. In colonial times, families grew their own flax to make into fabric for clothing. Transforming the flax into thread was a complicated, involved process with many time-consuming steps. After the flax was harvested, it was soaked in water for several days to soften it so the inner fibers could be removed from the stalk. To separate the long, thin fibers from the shorter, coarser ones, the flax was pulled through a bed of nails or combed in a process called “towing.” The shorter fibers that were extricated were of a lesser quality and were called “tow.” This led to the term “towheads” to describe people, particularly children, whose hair resembled these strands.

    Comment posted on May 23rd, 2011 at 12:44 am by Tim R
  47. “Readheads” are now “Gingers”.

    Comment posted on May 23rd, 2011 at 12:48 am by Tim R
  48. The weirdest name I ever heard was a child named after a box of orange jello. So it was pronounced
    Oooooo-raaangjello.

    Comment posted on May 23rd, 2011 at 3:31 am by songbirdgirl2001
  49. A man with brown hair is a brunet.

    Comment posted on May 23rd, 2011 at 5:31 am by Wild Sage
  50. I only know of the word ‘towhead’ through books and perhaps movies, and then only rarely. I doubt I ever heard someone use it irl. From the context, I always assumed it described a bratty, stubborn boy.

    Comment posted on May 28th, 2011 at 4:04 am by david
  51. heard of redheads but towheads is a new term

    Comment posted on May 30th, 2011 at 7:41 pm by abhishek

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