Community Guidelines: Be courteous

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Opinions are helpful when they allow us to learn more about another’s experiences to help inform our decisions. But things get a bit trickier in topics that are more personal or controversial than “how to” style Q&A.

Our Community Guideline reads:

Be courteous. Yahoo! Answers is a diverse community of people with diverse opinions. It is up to each of us to be polite and treat each other with respect.

Diversity is a very important part of community. It’s important to remember that Answerers come in all shapes and sizes, from many different backgrounds and viewpoints. In a community this diverse, it may be difficult to tell when personal opinions are appropriate and helpful.

When reading a question, consider who the Asker expects to answer their question:

  • Does the topic in question conflict with your personal beliefs? If so, you might want to refrain from answering if you can’t keep your objections to the topic to yourself. Remember, the asker is looking for an answer, not a fight.

  • Is the Asker seeking unique and differing opinions, or a factual answer? If they’re asking for advice it might be best to refrain from answering with just an opinion.

Lack of courtesy can also happen when asking questions. Consider how your question will sound to Answerers before you post it.

  • Does your question sound like it targets a certain group’s beliefs or opinions? Does it use words or phrases that you would find offensive if said about your beliefs or opinions? If so, you might want to rephrase it or ask a different question.

  • Are you genuinely looking for an answer to your question, or are you provoking a debate? If you really do want to hear other’s opinions, ask for them—and treat your Answerers with respect.

Dissenting opinions can be very valuable to the community, as long as we all remember to be respectful and courteous.

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  1. “Remember, the asker is looking for an answer, not a fight.”

    Please do something about the Religion & Spirituality section. This forum has devolved into nearly total uselessness as a repository of knowledge, and you have to scroll through about fifteen or twenty questions to finally get to the one that is actually “looking for an answer, not a fight”, and not ranting or platforming for some cause; and barely any of the answers are made in good faith. I can’t help but get the feeling that the aggressive tone of this forum is driving away a lot of users.

    Comment posted on March 7th, 2009 at 7:50 am by Steve Foster
  2. So does this mean rude people can be reported?

    Comment posted on June 24th, 2009 at 3:10 pm by Dd

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